Navigating Mental Health in the Workplace: Strategies for Improvement
Workplace mental health has become a key issue for many corporations and organizations in recent years. Mental health in the workplace has not been...
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Williamsburg Therapy Group : Nov 19, 2024 4:22:45 PM
It's not unusual to experience a moment when our emotions feel out of control and we end up saying or doing something that we regret. But why does this happen? How can we better control our feelings and actions? And how do we know when it's time to ask for help?
If you sometimes lash out at others, read on to find out more about this problem and learn some healthy ways to redirect your emotional energy.
Anger is a natural emotional reaction that can sometimes manifest as lashing out, damaging relationships, and eroding self-respect. Understanding the roots of lashing out, such as emotional intelligence, past trauma, and mental health, can be critical to managing it.
Lashing out can be a symptom of underlying anxiety and can lead to outbursts, such as road rage, in response to events that would not usually trigger an emotional reaction. Those who experience these moments often feel embarrassed when they find themselves back in a calm state of mind.
Identifying common triggers for lashing out can help individuals manage their anger and prevent harmful behavior.
Mental health issues, such as anxiety disorder, can exacerbate anger and lead to lashing out as a coping mechanism. Someone caught in difficult situations with a strong fight or flight response may find themselves striking out at a friend or family member in an angry outburst because they may feel trapped and don't know what to do with that energy.
By addressing psychological health and finding healthier ways to cope with stress, those who experience these issues, like anxiety disorder, can help reduce the likelihood of these angry outbursts.
Treatment for underlying mental health conditions may help individuals develop healthier coping mechanisms. Seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling, can provide individuals with tools and support to manage their anger and prevent lashing out.
Emotional intelligence (EQ) plays a crucial role in controlling anger and averting lashing out since it aids people in processing and articulating their emotions healthily. EQ refers to the ability to identify and understand one's emotions.
People with lower EQ may struggle to regulate their emotions effectively, leading to angry outbursts when they reach a breaking point. A greater EQ allows greater elasticity, promoting healthier responses to stressors instead of succumbing to anger-driven outbursts.
Georgetown University published a study on how angry employees are likely to become less empathetic, more egocentric, and more deceptive over time. Developing EQ can help individuals better understand their emotions and respond to situations more thoughtfully, improving their lives and relationships in both work and free time.
Past trauma can also play a significant role in why people lash out, acting as a defense mechanism in response to feeling threatened or unsafe due to unresolved issues.
Acknowledging and addressing trauma can help individuals find healthier ways to cope with their emotions and reduce the likelihood of lashing out.
Trauma can lead to feelings of being trapped or manipulated, causing individuals to react aggressively. Working with a professional can be a learning experience and offer insight into the why's behind your thoughts and behaviors. Then, working with your therapist, you can take action.
Establishing boundaries, self-care, and open communication with one’s partner are fundamental in dealing with co-dependent relationships.
Common triggers for lashing out include feeling threatened, being in co-dependent relationships, and reaching a breaking point. By learning to identify common triggers, you can help prepare for and manage stressors in your life.
Understanding what tends to lead up to or set off meltdowns can help individuals develop strategies to prevent them. Feeling trapped or manipulated can cause individuals to lash out as a way to regain control. When you can recognize when a moment of anxiety or anger may lead to feelings that are difficult to deal with, you can put healthy strategies in place to help manage them.
Being on the receiving end of angry outbursts can cause feelings of hurt and pain. Knowing how to respond when someone lashes out can help de-escalate the situation and maintain healthy relationships with them. Appropriate responses to an angry outburst include maintaining calm, setting boundaries, and showing empathy.
Calmly asking the person what’s going on if they snap at you. When you suspect they’re hurting underneath, it can help you diffuse the situation with less judgment and more kindness.
Disengaging and not reengaging before they’re ready to talk without lashing out can also help prevent further escalation.
If you are dealing with a person that you love and who you suspect may be dealing with underlying anxiety or anger issues, talk to them openly and honestly in a calm moment to share your concerns and offer your support in finding them help.
For some, it seems like a strange thing, but practicing self-compassion can help individuals respond to emotions in a healthier way. Criticizing ourselves or feeling ashamed are common responses to anger or the repercussions of anger, but fostering self-love is more healthy...and helpful.
Accepting that all humans are fallible can help tackle denial and shame. Checking in with oneself and asking how they feel after losing their temper can help individuals develop self-awareness.
Learning to treat oneself with kindness and understanding, rather than judgment, can help individuals develop a more positive relationship with themselves.
It's often to late when your pounding heart reminds you that you're in a situation where anger and anxiety are about to take over. Reducing negative stress in life can help prevent emotional meltdowns from occurring in the first place. Taking steps to manage stress and pressure can help individuals avoid meltdowns.
It's also important to learn to identify and address personal and emotional needs to help prevent meltdowns. Developing strategies to manage stress and pressure can help individuals lead a more balanced and fulfilling life.
Lashing out is a complex response to anger that emotional intelligence, past trauma, and mental health factors can influence. By understanding the roots of lashing out, identifying common triggers, and implementing strategies for managing anger, individuals can prevent outbursts and maintain healthier relationships.
At Williamsburg Therapy Group, our team of doctoral-level psychotherapists at Coconut Grove offers a number of evidence-based therapeutic approaches to talk therapy that offer the tools necessary for learning self-compassion, managing stress and negative feelings, and setting boundaries that can help you manage anger and anxiety that may be causing frustration in your life.
People lash out due to anxiety disorder, depression, trauma, and more. Professional help can lead to less anger and a better quality of life. Contact our service coordinator to find the right therapist to help manage anxiety, address anger, and help you focus on the positive aspects of life.
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